depends on your situation. IF you want to major in a specific course of study and the only colleges (the best) that have that curriculum are in Alaska and Texas, then you may need to think about going far away. If you are going into business management then most colleges all over the USA have that as part of their offerings. YOU decide based upon your desired major field of study, costs associated (travel, room and board, meals), and the degree to which you want to be near your family. From experience, it is difficult to do college level work "at home". Being away offers you the opportunity to meet others of different back rounds and helps your ability to adjust to life "on your own". Your parents are not the ones who will be going to college. Their opinions are important, but THEY shouldn't make your decision for you.