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Pressures About Sex
num1hrt
#1 Posted : Monday, September 25, 2006 1:45:31 PM(UTC)
num1hrt

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Joined: 9/25/2006(UTC)
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Ever since last year when i arrived at highschool, i have been talked to more about having sex than any drug or alcohol. It seems now-a-days kids my age are making the choice to have sex and it has me questioning. They say they are in love and they are this and that and they dont care if they get pregnant. But i know from watching a very close friend that not everyone means what they say. She got involved with someone she grew to know and love. She made the choice for him to be her first and she said it wasnt what she thought it would be afterwards. She kept having a sexual relationship with him until she got pregnant. When he found out he pretended it never happened and left her to deal with her new found blessing all by herself. I watched her change little by little into a person i hate to be around even to this day. She lost her baby and still talks to the guy to this day. I look at her past mistakes and tell myself that i never want that to be me. I want the movie magic, Romeo and JUliet, moment. And i am trying my hardest to wait for "the right one". But because i am a teenager i have urges that make me think, in the end, will it be worth it? And it is harder to be sure. With the risk of pregnancy and STDs i'd rather not take the risk. But thats just me. Have you made the choice?
Miss_November
#2 Posted : Monday, September 25, 2006 1:53:12 PM(UTC)
Miss_November

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Joined: 9/25/2006(UTC)
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i like the story and its true to that for real. but people will pressure you and everything. just keep your head up and don't worry about it.
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