Hay things are tough and some guys really are hopeless, a life is hard to leave behind I know, I moved into the united states for Ireland, my home contry, I was a small town sheperdess, but then my parents moved me and my brother out here and well things haven't exactly been easy, sure it will be hard, but follow your heart, if your heart says to go, then go, if it says to stay, then stay, thats all it really boils down to. What are your friends going to do if you go? never talk to you again? If so then their not your friends, if they were your true friends then they would respect your dream and let you do what you want to do,even if that means going to Boston for schooling, they would still be your friends.
Okay on to the balancing act. One life is a balancing act, look at your parents or guardians for example; They get up, go to work, come home, cook, clean, and spend time with you right? well with getting up, you have to resist staying in bed, which at times is really hard, I know. With going to work, there are very few people anymore who like their jobs, so its more of torture to go to work espically if they work and depend on others to get something done, like a group project and your partner doesn't know the printer from the stapler that sort of thing, and then there is the boss saying that if your group doesn't get its project done at this time, then the whole group is fired, and all your waiting on to turn it in is that one person, who in turn is waiting for the pages to come out of the stapler. Coming home, that is usually the better unless you have a whiney spouse, or rotten kids then its the same as work, that whole thing is self explanitory. Cooking, I don't know about you but I hate it, I always burn it, even ceral, how I did that I don't know, it just happened honest!! Cleaning is also a pain in the neck, I mean its just that spot that won't come out of the carpet!!! its sooooo annoying!!! and then the relaxing part spending time with you, that is a joy for your parents or gaurdians. there for life will always be a balancing act, be greatful now because its so small of one, instead payign bills and such, and getting that 'oh god I don't have enough hours in at work I won't have enough for my bills!!' feeling.
about the guys thing, some guys are hopeless I find that the guys that are the quiet nerdy type are better for the relationship than anything else
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~~~~~~~~~~~~!Devlona!~~~~~~~~~~
So...we are all told in this world that we are on our own,....let me tell you something.....we're not alone....not anymore...we have each other.....