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amanda17
#1 Posted : Wednesday, January 03, 2007 11:09:20 AM(UTC)
amanda17

Rank: Starting Next Stepper

Joined: 1/3/2007(UTC)
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umm. this is my first time posting and everyone here seems to know what they're talking about so i just need a little insight... i need to decide whether to take advantage of my parents and live with them while in college or to move out and try to make it on my own...also, i was wondering that if i was to move out and get married if it would really mess up my financial aid...well i hope you guys can help[:(]
amanda17
#3 Posted : Friday, January 05, 2007 10:02:39 AM(UTC)
amanda17

Rank: Starting Next Stepper

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Posts: 15

thanx ill take what you said into consideration
bandgeek
#4 Posted : Thursday, January 11, 2007 4:50:54 PM(UTC)
bandgeek

Rank: New Next Stepper

Joined: 1/11/2007(UTC)
Posts: 6

it depends on where you want to go to college and if you want to stay with your parents. its a personal decision everyone needs to make on there own. personally i am more than ready to get out and away from my parents. while there are others who aren't ready. i say just follow your gut. as far as getting married i would wait. if the guy really loves you he will be understanding and willing to wait.
amanda17
#5 Posted : Friday, January 12, 2007 5:25:50 AM(UTC)
amanda17

Rank: Starting Next Stepper

Joined: 1/3/2007(UTC)
Posts: 15

thanx...i understand and yes he is willing to wait...so...i really appreciate your comment...[;)]
bygrad05
#6 Posted : Thursday, January 18, 2007 2:39:27 PM(UTC)
bygrad05

Rank: Starting Next Stepper

Joined: 9/19/2006(UTC)
Posts: 16

if you get married you dont mess up your finacial aid. your actully more likely to get finacial aid if your married because you'll be making less money than your parents. as for staying in your house or leaving. do you want to pay for board or do you need the money. i think its a good idea to live with other people and learn how to get along with people your not related to.
amanda17
#7 Posted : Monday, January 22, 2007 10:04:55 AM(UTC)
amanda17

Rank: Starting Next Stepper

Joined: 1/3/2007(UTC)
Posts: 15

thanx i really like ur plan better because tht is what i really want to do and i was hopeing that if i moved out i would gt more financial aid...since i would have very little income...thank you[;)]
Anih
#2 Posted : Friday, May 04, 2007 6:12:33 PM(UTC)
Anih

Rank: Junior Next Stepper

Joined: 4/6/2007(UTC)
Posts: 15

Hey,

For the 1st question it depends on how far the college is from home . But as my spanish teacher always say "family,, u can't leave with them you can't leave without them" I would rather ask u to stay in touch with everything they do. Family do help a lot because there will be a time that u will truly need them. For the 3rd, do not get married until u have destined that whom u are marrying is right for u or u just let nature do it's thing.[:)]
Devlona
#3 Posted : Friday, July 27, 2007 8:16:14 AM(UTC)
Devlona

Rank: Super Next Stepper

Joined: 7/25/2007(UTC)
Posts: 60

I would suggest shmoozing off your parents until after college, but then after that move out, be involving with somebody but get married after graduation, you don't want to be married, marriage makes everything complicated during that time....


~~~~~~~~!Devlona!~~~~~~~~~~
So...we are all told in this world that we are on our own,....let me tell you something.....we're not alone....not anymore...we have each other.....
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