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AngieAngel88
#1 Posted : Thursday, January 06, 2011 6:23:30 AM(UTC)
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I sit in class everyday wondering why that someone doesnt notice me, I walk the hallways glancing around and he doesnt even see me.  In a certain class we talk all the time and laugh but I dont think he really notices me.
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K12CAVA
#2 Posted : Friday, January 14, 2011 6:59:54 PM(UTC)
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Is this a poem?
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c_doud
#3 Posted : Tuesday, February 08, 2011 6:40:20 AM(UTC)
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I know the feeling. We talk and laugh in one class, but the rest of the time its like i'm invisible.
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Teosanchez
#4 Posted : Sunday, June 12, 2011 12:20:50 PM(UTC)
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If you want him to notice more just talk to him more. If he doesn't notice you it's your fault not his. Try just sending him an email and see what happens..
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wier18
#6 Posted : Monday, November 14, 2011 6:46:48 PM(UTC)
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I know how you feel :(

I suggest that you do not wait for him to finally notice you because boys can be complete idiots

he could even like you but he can not see that you like hime back

Over the years I have waited for two boys to notice me and neither of them have
It kills me but I deal with it

Try to suggest to him to go to the movies (other) with some of your and his friends
The question will not seem like you are one of those pushy types of girls and he will not be able to say no because he does not want to be alone with you
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wier18
#5 Posted : Monday, November 14, 2011 6:49:41 PM(UTC)
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you are so insaineMad
it would not be her faultMad
it could be nobodies fault because he just does feel that way about her
or he just can not realize that she likes him
If she trys to talk to him more it means that she tried
that is all that she can do
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komina
#7 Posted : Monday, November 14, 2011 10:53:08 PM(UTC)
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Don't do what I did. x3 Talk to him more. Grin at him, inject some good humor into whatever conversation you manage to initiate.

I'm a very attached person, if you know what I mean. I've had an incurable crush on just one young man in these past three years, and because of my "carefulness" around him, we didn't get really close. And we'll be graduating this year - without my having been able to tell him.

Don't let the time get away from you. If you intend to pursue a serious relationship, go ahead and take the first step yourself. :D
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OnSolidRock
#8 Posted : Wednesday, November 16, 2011 1:41:13 AM(UTC)
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Hmmm....well I had that problem not too long ago. I just decided one day that stressing over whether or not a guy likes me is a waste of energy and of thought. It is probably better for your sanity just to let it go. And hey, if he likes you then he will pursue you (call you, ask you out on a date, and so on...). If he doesn't, his loss. Also, don't be afraid to ask him if he likes you. The answer to that question can help you move on with life more quickly.

As for me, I believe there are more important things to worry about like: school, a job, family, ECT. As of now, I'm more worried about earning enough money to study abroad in Japan than having a boyfriend. I'm only 18, so I have plenty of time to worry about guys later. Laugh
"Maturity is when your world opens up and you realize that you are not the center of it."
~ M.J. Croan
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