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Roadkill_29
#1 Posted : Wednesday, February 21, 2007 1:45:53 PM(UTC)
Roadkill_29

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There's this guy I really like & one minute he acts like he likes me, but then the next he acts like I'm one of the guys! But, I don't want to be! What should I do? I mean like the fact he talks to me like a friend, but I want to be a girlfriend to him!!

HELP ME PLEASE!!!!
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erickac17
#2 Posted : Thursday, February 22, 2007 12:09:11 PM(UTC)
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TELL HIM!! Talk to him, just sitting there and pouting will not do anything. Guys have the habit of beibg absolutely clueless. All you guys out there know its true so don't deny it. Roadkill: if you don't do anything, theres a good chance things will never change.[;)]
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FSUWannabe
#3 Posted : Friday, February 23, 2007 8:22:13 AM(UTC)
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[font="trebuchet ms"]I totally agree with Erickac17.....guys are clueless, and it is our responsibility to fill them in...Besides, some guys like it when we take the initiative....it allows them to be lazy (and what guy doesn't like to be lazy?).[/font]
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erickac17
#4 Posted : Saturday, February 24, 2007 11:31:54 AM(UTC)
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Finally!! Somebody sees my point!! Thank you!
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spicy67857
#5 Posted : Monday, March 19, 2007 12:13:22 PM(UTC)
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Tell him you like him and talk to him and see if that helps
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Drkrose89
#2 Posted : Wednesday, March 21, 2007 2:25:47 AM(UTC)
Drkrose89

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Joined: 3/17/2007(UTC)
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I myself was in situations like these because I was considered a tomboy but I think you have to put yourself out there and make him like you. One of my guy friend I really like dated me because he said I was different. Well, ask him to hang out. Just you and him for fun. So you have one on one time with him. He gets to know you better. Also don't dump on him that you like him because it might overwhelm him, but casually build up your relationship and maybe he will soon realize..he has feelings for you too.
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Roadkill_29
#3 Posted : Thursday, March 22, 2007 1:31:26 PM(UTC)
Roadkill_29

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THanks! so far I've tried to bring it up that I like him but I get too chicken at the end. But he's coming over a lot more, so I think he got the message! But, one question: how do you bring up that you like him?

~Roadkill~
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erickac17
#4 Posted : Friday, March 23, 2007 8:13:02 AM(UTC)
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^sigh^ again:just tell him!!!!!!
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tanri
#5 Posted : Wednesday, April 04, 2007 9:59:15 AM(UTC)
tanri

Rank: Senior Next Stepper

Joined: 12/5/2006(UTC)
Posts: 70
Heh.... Roadkill, you know about MY clueless guy.... If he's coming around a lot more, I'd say that's a good sign. I always feel a sense of relief when mine does that...
Anyway, I do want to say one thing: make sure he's not just flirting with you; that symbolizes a guy that is just with you until a new toy comes along. If he's treating you like "one of the guys" that's probably the best sign of all -- it shows he considers you a friend. That's the best way to go (I've learned from experience.) If you feel like you can really talk to him, go ahead and ask him. Ugh... I should probably take my own advice pretty soon...
Let me know how it goes!

luv ya!
[:)] tanri
email: tanriguitar@gmail.com
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