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Aubrey_Rose
#1 Posted : Wednesday, July 16, 2008 4:37:15 PM(UTC)
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Hi, my name is Aubrey. I am currently working on a project for a class. I have a serious question, and I wuold like appropriate answers.
I want people's opinions on this question:

Why is it that people, teens, think that sex is so wonderful, and fun, but they hate sexual education classes?
This is me...
amhughes
#2 Posted : Wednesday, July 16, 2008 5:16:33 PM(UTC)
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I've heard (I really don't care at all) that people don't like the classes because they aren't telling them the things that they want to learn about. Also, where I live, these classes are mostly given on a middle school level. In middle school, people aren't really ready/mature enough to receive the information.

Hope I helped...sorry if I didn't!
cchandler_4
#3 Posted : Saturday, July 19, 2008 6:19:05 AM(UTC)
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Because in sex education class, you learn all the negative and positive sides to having sex. And when teens hear all the bad things they dont want to hear it.Me myself dont mind sex education class, I like to learn about stuff like that,(im a geek like that). Maybe they should find another way to get the message across then sex education class.
Aubrey_Rose
#4 Posted : Tuesday, July 22, 2008 9:33:03 PM(UTC)
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Thank you both!
This is me...
tugger20
#5 Posted : Wednesday, July 23, 2008 5:36:53 PM(UTC)
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Probably because sex ed classes are, in most cases, very, very, very awkward. The teachers obviously don't feel comfortable talking about it, even our school nurse shies away from actually using the term "sex", and most students aren't that comfortable either. We go to school to get a diploma, not to be embarassed by our stumbling math teacher's attempts to explain how people get pregnant. Maybe going to the class wouldn't be so bad if we had more confident people (preferably non-school employees) to lead the classes.
samurai_sis_09
#6 Posted : Tuesday, December 16, 2008 4:40:38 AM(UTC)
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In my opinion, if you are old enough to have sex you shouldn't feel awkward talking about it with your doctor or partner. Also, it's annoying when people won't buy their own birth control, because of embarrassment.
Samurai
TRAXX
#7 Posted : Wednesday, December 17, 2008 3:52:10 PM(UTC)
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Most adults feel that it is their responsablity to teach their own children about sex and not the schools. Also when sex is being taught in class the kids are with their friends and ofcorse not taking the class seriously. The things that they cover in sex ed classes can be boring, especially if the teacher feels unconfertable teaching and try to get through it as quick as possible.
fastpitchariel
#8 Posted : Saturday, March 14, 2009 5:11:09 PM(UTC)
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I think it is because of ignorance, it's like taking an addictive drug without following up on what it does to you. I was actually one of the kids who paid attention in sex ed class, I take interest in it because I know that it is valuable information, & I talk to my boyfriend about "sexual" topics, mostly just bodily functions, why they react the way they do, & he will just sit their with this wild face while I go on, he'll stop me & say where did you learn all of this from ? I mean its not like I was the only kid in the class, it was required ! How is it that no one paid attention ? & the answer is ignorance, immaturity: I was in that class in 8th grade, kids havent had the experience & most giggle or think they know EVERYTHING about sex. Teenagers have the same response though, they have sex because they enjoy it, they only respond to pleasure, thats all they understand, but when it comes to learning about it, what it there to learn? you just do it because it feels good, & as absurd as this sounds, this is what people think, sad really.
CaliGirl09
#9 Posted : Monday, March 16, 2009 7:52:19 PM(UTC)
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I think that people hate the classes because it can be awkward at times. Teens like to participate in sexual activities, but they don't like to talk about it outside of their friends... in public... in front of a teacher. My sister took one of those classes last month, and the teacher said that it was "healthy" to have sex on a continual basis. Like I said, AWKWARD! Also, the teens know that premarital sex is not good, in the sense that if they get caught there might be consequences, either long lasting health-wise or relationship-wise.
Victoria
Sugarwaffle
#10 Posted : Thursday, March 26, 2009 6:48:21 AM(UTC)
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I remember I always loved sex education class. It helped me reassure myself about my own confusing feelings. The reason others are uncomfortable with it is that all our lives we're told that sex is bad and dirty, and puberty is "gross"...A good sex ed class should teach the opposite, that all of it is natural.
xeriox
#11 Posted : Thursday, March 26, 2009 9:16:02 AM(UTC)
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I think that having a sex ed class is great. It helps you understand the opposite sex. Some people say that it is uncomfortable, but it can prevent you from making a wrong decision. My friends and I have talked about sex and we are glad that we are peventing girls getting pregnant at a wrong time. In the end I thinnk that even though it's awkward it's comfortable talking about it, the class is also fun. I think that you should make love instead of sex, but when teens have sex they do it for fun and just to say "I had sex".
Hay_bales
#12 Posted : Thursday, March 26, 2009 12:16:33 PM(UTC)
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I think all it is, is that teens always have to know everything, so we go around and tell our friends "Oh yea I've this with a guy/girl" or "yea I've done stuff with that guy/girl" just to look cool, when really we don't know anything about it. I think the reason people don't like sex-ed is because it shows people what all they really don't know about it so they get embarased. Hope I helped you out!!!
FreakkBoo2012
#13 Posted : Thursday, March 26, 2009 12:21:49 PM(UTC)
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i am open-minded. i dont mindd to discuss about sex education. last year i learned many ssex education. some students are uncomfortable to tell, but our teacher trust us, so it is not annoying me. it is important to learn because never know to person rape you. so i think sex is good but depend on people.

Becca_Boo
#14 Posted : Tuesday, May 24, 2011 4:18:18 AM(UTC)
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They don't want to learn about it, they just want to have it! XD But that is a good question.
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